In my candidate statement this past spring, I said that I believe our “best days are ahead of us. While growth and change may challenge us, they also present an opportunity to expand our reach, deepen our ministry, and ensure that every person knows they are a beloved child of God.”
I stand by those words and want to expand on my vision for Dignity Washington in the upcoming year. I remember the hay days of when we had over 400 people attend Mass at St. Margaret’s in the 1990s. We had a host of committees managing events that provided fellowship in various forms throughout the year. While many of those events have changed in the last 10+ years, we, the community, can have some of those events return to us.
What I want to do is encourage each and every one of you to take a more active role in making a difference for the future of Dignity Washington. It is important to move out of our comfort zone to create changes. I want us to accept a challenge to change the direction of our outreach by going out into other communities. We should boldly spread the word that we are here and ready to provide a spiritual home for those who need us but don’t yet know about us. I want “us” to reach out to our friends and family and bring them to Mass so they can experience what we have to offer. I want us to participate in activities at other Catholic churches to represent Dignity Washington with a face and a hand shake.
We experience success in our community even though our numbers are smaller than before the pandemic. We met the challenge to continue Mass through the dark days of uncertainty because of the coordinated work of a determined group of people. We have a great opportunity to make a difference one person at a time. We need everyone to do her, his, their part to grow our community. And with the grace of God, we can begin to strengthen our numbers and grow our ministries.
We can no longer capitulate to the idea that we are only an aging community with little to offer younger people. Instead, our wisdom is a commodity from which younger people can benefit. As Cardinal McElroy said in our meeting with him in May, he tries different things and see what sticks. That’s my challenge for us.
By the time you read this note, we will have selected our new Communication Coordinator. This person will work closely with the Board of Directors to spread the message of Dignity Washington to the LGBTQ+ and allied communities through social media campaigns and posters in meeting places and on college campuses. The board discussed ways to reach out to organizations like PFLAG and gay and straight alliances to let them know we are here for them and their loved ones. Our Communication Coordinator is young and knows the latest trends to reach people searching for a spiritual community.
I want to reach out to high school and college student groups to “adopt” Dignity Washington for volunteer opportunities. There are tasks these young people can do for the benefit of DW and our community while earning volunteer hours that are most often requirements for many school programs. We should take advantage of examples of brave risk takers at other Dignity chapters like in Philadelphia and Boston where they have seen growth in their communities.
Previously, we had a “Table of Six” where Dignity members would host a dinner at their home and guests who had signed up to participate would bring a side dish to share. Something less complicated would be a Dignity member organize a tour of something of interest or maybe even a lecture given by the Smithsonian or other institutions. Doing so would give us an opportunity to be together in difference spaces, get to know one another better, and possibly meet people to invite to Mass.
In our midst, we have a wealth of knowledge and experience on various subjects that we could share with others. I want you to consider volunteering for one of the liturgical ministries, some of which will require little time commitment on your part but would help us tremendously. It is possible to give back to the community by forming a group of volunteers at a school to help tutor students how to read or do math problems once a week, for example. I am always looking for articles for the Bulletin of interest to the community. If you are a writer, you can contribute by discussing an issue that is relevant to our community.
Overall, we must do something to show we are Christians inside and outside the doors of St. Margaret’s. I hope you consider what you can do and share that with me or a board member to show that Dignity is alive in the greater community.
I encourage you to let me know what concerns you about Dignity Washington and what we do well. With an open-door policy, I hope to move the efforts of the community forward. We can continue a healing and affirming outreach to Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and Queer
Catholics, as well as all those who seek a faith community rooted in dignity and inclusion.
Your brother in Christ,
Peter Edwards
President
Dignity Washington